Champions!!! said:
I still stand by what I said that the difference in treatment is because gays/bis make too much of an issue over their sexuality.
where have i ever made my sexuality an osse, i have answered questions that people have asked, but i have not referred to anything specifically to make my sexuality an issue,
only defending my lifestyle when it has came under threat
a ot of the comments i ahve made are not referring to my sexualty but general beliefs or myths about gay life
But by making the thread that is what you did and therefore you surely should have to accept that you may have to face negative comments for doing so.
i have never stopped anyone from posting any opinions
but you can't come intpo such a thread and repetedly make personal attacks.
sure say what you think about the idea of being gay etc, but don;t attack me personally, the one person to artack me personally is no longerable to contribute to the thred
a thread on a forum is meant to be an area of discussion, and dare i say argument about points, it is not meant to be somewhere where people get personally slagged off.
I'm also quite happy to discuss my heterosexuality but I'm not going to, which is basically the point I was making, you either consider yourself different in which case you take the things that come with being different or you consider yourself normal in which case you shut up.
the thread was never meant to be about my sexuality, the only reason that comment was in the opening post, was to say the position I am in, and hence why i know that discrimination is present in football
this is what i was wanting to discuss, not my sexuality, there are plenty of other places i can do that, i do not need to discuss it, i am completly happy with my life, what i am not happy with is the discrimination i face when trying to play football, which starts when people find out that I am not straight.
as an example, i was playing for a local sunday league side, and had been playing for them for just over 1 season.
1 week my boyfriend came along to watch the match, and the manager saw us huggin after the game, he confronted me, and i told the truth. Remainder of the season i wasn't even on the subs bench. So in the time of 1 week, I had gone from regular 1st team full back, to not even being able to get 2 minutes in a match:- that os the topic of this thread, how can anyone justify such treatment