My Toronto Exchange Thread [ P | R ]

[Bobby]

If it was that easy, everyone would be doing it. It's easier than making a girl fall in love with you, which is impossible if there's no initial spark. Dude, I couldn't make a girl fall BACK in love with me. How are you going to do it to someone who's got no feelings for you?

Burundanga?

 

[RobbieD_PL]

Burundanga?

I want a honourable and virtuous courtship, copulation and betrothal. Drugs are out of the question man.

EDIT: Goddamn it! I left my backpack in the cafeteria for like a whole hour without realising Fortunately nothing's missing, but this isn't a good sign

 

[ShiftyPowers]

EDIT: She said she likes me but not in that way. Is that just a euphemism or do I have smthing there?

EDIT Numer Drei: Why do I feel like such a dick doing all this ignoring and cool guy ****? I mean it feels good when it happens, but there's just smthing always nagging at me telling me that I shudnt and I regret it afterwards.

EDIT Numer Vier: BTW, I gave her a really nice watch for her birthday when she arrived and it has two time-zone settings, one that she has set on Local Toronto time and the other on CET for France. She would always ask me the time coz she never had a watch with her back in Australia. Something that's pretty AND useful. If anything, she's the one who has smthing to remember ME by!

It's not a euphamism. Here's the deal, women like the validation of having guys hanging all over them. It makes their self-esteem skyrocket and they feel better about themselves. They don't mind that they have an orbiter like yourself until you start to come onto them. She loves the attention that you give her, she just doesn't want to date you. The fact that you give her gifts just increases her incentive to keep you around, but she will never screw you. Every new detail you provide shines even more light on how it will never work between you two. Seriously, move on man. It really is for the best.

 

[treble41]

Er, on another not, I don't know how your tutorials are but ours can suck. Kids are too academically focused to have any fun usually, and you have to go to a 1-2 hour tutorial just to write a friggin 10 minute quiz at the end of the tutorial

 

[Joe]

Er, on another not, I don't know how your tutorials are but ours can suck. Kids are too academically focused to have any fun usually, and you have to go to a 1-2 hour tutorial just to write a friggin 10 minute quiz at the end of the tutorial

I don't speak Canadian.


Anyway, Robbie c'mon man. Just hang in there and cut off that last string of hope--there's hope elsewhere. Just enjoy yourself while you're abroad...

 

[ShiftyPowers]

Seriously, women are attracted to guys who have options. Guys who other women want, because if other women want them then there must be a reason. Legitimately, the ONLY fathomable way to get this girl back is to start dating someone else. There is nothing else you can do. Every time you talk to her you sink lower. Honestly, these are the only words you should say to her for 6 months at least, "I had a lot of feelings for you and you knew it. You always knew it, but you kept stringing me along allowing me to give you expensive gifts and attention. You did it for your own self-esteem and you didn't care if you hurt me at all. You are a bitch and I never want to talk to you again. Maybe one day you will learn that you aren't the only person in this world with feelings, but until then live in your selfish little bubble and use more guys like me. What is a broken heart to 10 guys if it validates your life? Do me a favor, just reject them right away next time, don't give them that false hope. **** you whore."

You'll make her cry, guaranteed.

 

[RobbieD_PL]

that false hope one was good, I actually thought of that before.

EDIT: But I don't want her to cry. Even tho I shed so many tears over her, I can't do it. My heart can't do it.

EDIT Numer Zwei: I think that what it was, it was that I sincerely appreciated her friendship. I had these feelings for her because she was just there, something that I never had before. It's like I felt so desperate, and only want one gril, (Le Grill? what the hell is Le Grill! ) that I felt kind of loyal to her, and I didn't want to come onto/hit on her because I didn't want to disrespect her. So I could only give little hints and even then I was afraid that she would figure it out and then start to resent me for it. I didn't know whether to be direct or indirect, attack or defend, go left or right. Goddamn it. (:/)

EDIT Numer Drei: Another thing; I have this fear of rejection. No matter what I do it never seems to work. Every time I think I get close to a girl there's always something holding me back. I always seem to be lacking something. No matter how long I know a girl, my feelings don't have any say. They don't count for f*ck all. I don't want to regret telling her my feelings, because it was bad enough as it was not telling her for so long.

 

[ShiftyPowers]

EDIT Numer Drei: Another thing; I have this fear of rejection. No matter what I do it never seems to work. Every time I think I get close to a girl there's always something holding me back. I always seem to be lacking something. No matter how long I know a girl, my feelings don't have any say. They don't count for f*ck all. I don't want to regret telling her my feelings, because it was bad enough as it was not telling her for so long.

Yeah, well everyone has it. Honestly the best way to avoid this is to show your interest pretty quickly after you meet her. Don't do it until you are getting signs that she's interested "do you have a girlfriend?" is one sign, playfully touching you is another, but do it quick. You should get indications that she's interested within 5 minutes of meeting any girl. They aren't kidding when they say that they know immediately if they will have sex with a guy or not. If you come on as a friend, that's where you get pigeonholed. If you come on as a potential suitor, then you're going to be viewed as one until you screw something up. If you go about it that way, you'll probably get "rejected" more, but you will never get rejected by anyone you ALREADY have an emotional attachment to.

 

[RobbieD_PL]

What do you mean by "suitor"?

 

[Back Door Skip]

Interested in a romantic way, or sex material.

 

[Joe]

Robbie post a pic in the member thread so we can see if you even stood a chance...

 

[RobbieD_PL]

Robbie post a pic in the member thread so we can see if you even stood a chance...

Of me or of her?

 

[ShiftyPowers]

Good call. Post a picture of you two together.

 

[RobbieD_PL]

Good call. Post a picture of you two together.

Hmm The only one i have of both of us is on our friend's camera.... (:/)

 

[Joe]

Alright well one of you. Need to see what we're dealing with.

 

[ShiftyPowers]

Two individual pics?

 

[RobbieD_PL]

Two individual pics?

Haven't got one of me on this laptop and the camera I have is really ****, i forgot to bring the USB cable for it

 

[RobbieD_PL]

EDIT See Below

 

[Joe]

 

[RobbieD_PL]

What?

That was just an personal afterthought man; I can remove it if u wish