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Sir Calumn
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So, I want to get the forums views on a moral question.
A friend of mine, lets call him A, is a very nice young man with a good job and a nice girlfriend whom has has been with a long time and is rather fond of and does not know if he loves. However, he also has quite a high sex drive and likes to have sex with various other women, he is also fond of booze and cocaine which drive this tendency further. He is very into PUA stuff and I think needs the self validation of proving to himself that he can still pull beautiful women. He has therefore cheated on his girlfriend on numerous occasions including occasionally with prostitutes.
However, it is purely sex and he has never formed an emotional attachment with any of these women. He keeps it entirely secret from his girlfriend and treats her extremely well, and she seems to be very happy. Were he not to sleep with other women he would almost certainly get bored in the relationship and may leave her, which would upset her greatly.
Is he therefore doing no harm and actually being kinder to his girlfriend by not hurting her, or are his actions morally unjustifiable and should he not be doing what he does? Please vote and give your opinion, let me know if you need more details and if I do not know them I will ask A.
A friend of mine, lets call him A, is a very nice young man with a good job and a nice girlfriend whom has has been with a long time and is rather fond of and does not know if he loves. However, he also has quite a high sex drive and likes to have sex with various other women, he is also fond of booze and cocaine which drive this tendency further. He is very into PUA stuff and I think needs the self validation of proving to himself that he can still pull beautiful women. He has therefore cheated on his girlfriend on numerous occasions including occasionally with prostitutes.
However, it is purely sex and he has never formed an emotional attachment with any of these women. He keeps it entirely secret from his girlfriend and treats her extremely well, and she seems to be very happy. Were he not to sleep with other women he would almost certainly get bored in the relationship and may leave her, which would upset her greatly.
Is he therefore doing no harm and actually being kinder to his girlfriend by not hurting her, or are his actions morally unjustifiable and should he not be doing what he does? Please vote and give your opinion, let me know if you need more details and if I do not know them I will ask A.