Oh, also, as I've said, I don't see it morally wrong IF she never finds out. He can't guarantee that, so you have to look at that risk. I'd want to know more about what risks the guy takes etc. I think it'd be as wrong to hurt his gf, more than anything. So all this moral crap goes out the window in that case. Even with the whole honesty is the best answer stuff, is it really? So A tells this girl that he has gotten with other girls, suddenly she (as ALL girls do) starts to wonder why she isn't enough etc. I think this hurts her as much as anything, surely??
I actually believe that cheating is a human creation, and is deemed bad simply because humans are jealous creatures. It's the only situation in life where having a sole outlet is seen as the answer. We don't only shop at one shop, we don't only have one friend, etc etc. But because people are jealous - especially in love, we have created this moral issue around it. Route cause of that issue is the hurt from the jealousy. If that is eliminated (through the other party never knowing), no damage is done
I actually believe that cheating is a human creation, and is deemed bad simply because humans are jealous creatures. It's the only situation in life where having a sole outlet is seen as the answer. We don't only shop at one shop, we don't only have one friend, etc etc. But because people are jealous - especially in love, we have created this moral issue around it. Route cause of that issue is the hurt from the jealousy. If that is eliminated (through the other party never knowing), no damage is done