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Problem, if you're into law please help

-William-

Starting XI
Ok so I have a problem and I need advice and if anyone is into law and stuff like that I would greatly appreciate your feedback.

Ok so last night I went to a frat party here at my college (in america). I was pretty drunk, and when I went into the house the first thing I did was drop my Carlos*et behind some couch (there were lots of other Carlos*ets). So the rest of the time at the party I spent it dancing and making out with this girl. On the way back I couldn't find my Carlos*et and this girl gave me another Carlos*et by mistake thinking it was mine, and I took it. This morning my roommate tells me he found this university ID card of a girl on my desk. I do not remember taking or seeing that ID at all. But I did remember seeing the girl in the ID at the party with some girl I know. So the first thing I do is contact the girl I knew and gave her the ID so she would give it to her friend, when I do this the girl I knew tells me that the girl who's ID I found got her purse and cellphone stolen at the party. Later on today I went with a friend back to the frat house to get my Carlos*et back, I got it, and on the way back my friend was lighting a cigarette and we saw a cellphone in some bushes, I told my friend: man, maybe that's her phone, yet so I didn't take it, we just left it there. Later on I tell this guy I know (who is firneds with the girl that got her purse stolen and whos id i found) that I saw a phone by some bushes by the frat house. So this guy asks me where exactly I saw it, I tell him, and he decides to go look for the phone.

Later on tonight I recieve a message of the girl that got her purse stolen that she knows exactly what I did, she says I got her ID and 21 dollars and that I threw away her purse and her cellphones in the bushes. She says she contacted the police and that I better pay her back the 21 dollars and apologize by tomorrow or if not she's going to tell the police about me.

So now I don't know what to do. I mean I guess what happeend is that while I was looking for my Carlos*et I found the ID on the floor and decided to take it and give it to her, since I didnt see her around I wanted to go, i kept it. But I'm positive I didn't steal any money or cellphone or anything. Plus, I have proof that I walked out of the party not holding a bag since I was with some girl and other friends, although we were all quite drunk. Then also it could've been that her ID was in the Carlos*et I took by mistake, but I asked the girl if she had lost her Carlos*et and she said no.

Now I'm wondering what the consequences can be for me, since I am not willing to pay her back 21 dollars or apologize, cause really i did not do anything!
 

ShiftyPowers

Make America Great Again
There are very likely no consequences. Don't pay back the money. She should be thanking you for finding her ID, phone, and purse. She's just mad at her drunken whoreness and is taking it out on you. The police have no evidence at all against you and no one saw you do anything wrong. Don't worry about it.
 

didy

Red Card - 1-12-08 - Posting pornographic material
Life Ban
you cant apologise for something you didn't do. or pay money you didn't steal tell her as it is, the police can't do **** cuz there is no direct link between you and the purse and other items. but the situation looks kinda suspicious if i was the bich i would have suspected you a bit as well.
 

-William-

Starting XI
ShiftyPowers said:
There are very likely no consequences. Don't pay back the money. She should be thanking you for finding her ID, phone, and purse. She's just mad at her drunken whoreness and is taking it out on you. The police have no evidence at all against you and no one saw you do anything wrong. Don't worry about it.
Well actually I only found her ID, what happened was that the day after I found it (when I went back to the frat house to pick up my Carlos*et) my friend and I noticed a phone next to some bushes, so I told her friend about it. I never saw her purse or anything else.
 
Tell that b!tch to go f*ck herself and ask her if she really thinks you'd return her ID if you had actually stolen her sh!t? Not to mention the location of the cell phone.. Only a retarded thief would volunteer to link himself to the crime like that, the cops will know this and beleive your story (unless you're black or Mexican).

If things get really bad for you and they're threatening to charge you, have them fingerprint the phone. Assuming you didn't touch it, you'll be clear.

Was the guy that went back to look for the cellphone at the party?

EDIT: By the way, you should also mention to that c*nt that threatening to report you (without hard proof) to the cops unless you give her money is technically extortion and/or blackmail. You should have HER ass charged..
 

-William-

Starting XI
Nah, the guy that went back to look for the cellphone wasn't at the party.

EDIT: But would it also be consider as extortion if she is asking me to give back the money that supposely was in her bag? (only 21 bucks..)
 

runner4life203

Youth Team
if she is demanding money i guess it could be extortion but i wouldn't pay her. if she is this upset about 21 bucks then thats a little extreme. i wouldn't worry about it
 
S

Sir Calumn

Guest
Generally I would say that no problem is worth 21 measly ******* dollars, so just pay her and be done, but I suppose in this case that would seem like an admission of guilt. Odds are that absolutely nothing will happen, but if things do escalate, do consider the option of buying her off. And spread rumours about what a bitch she it so this doesnt colour your reputation. And never, ever, ever do a nice thing for a woman ever again in your life.
 

MaestroZidane

YELLOW CARD: Untrustworthy
Unless she can provide solid evidence that can connect you to her purse, like a witness and or survaillance, she doesn't have a case. And i don't see why a police officer would waste their time investigating such a case for a measly 21 dollars.
 
-William- said:
EDIT: But would it also be consider as extortion if she is asking me to give back the money that supposely was in her bag? (only 21 bucks..)

Ofcourse it would, she isn't the judge and jury. She is in no position to make an accusation and automaticly assign guilt on you. Not to mention the fact she's threatening to report you if you don't give her the money, even though she has no proof that you did anything. I agree with what ShiftyPowers says, she was a drunked idiot and f*cked up, now she's just looking to make someone the scapegoat for her own mistakes.

You're innocent until proven guilty man, we're not in f*ckin' Iran or something. Just tell the cops the truth, or better yet, call them first and explain your situation.. It'll show good faith on your part and that you have nothing to hide.

MaestroZidane said:
Unless she can provide solid evidence that can connect you to her purse, like a witness and or survaillance, she doesn't have a case. And i don't see why a police officer would waste their time investigating such a case for a measly 21 dollars.

That's probably exactly what will happen. For 21 bucks and a cell phone, the cops will probably just tell her to smarten up and be more careful with her stuff when she's out partying. If anything, they'll tell her she was lucky that someone was honest enough to return her ID to her.
 

-William-

Starting XI
Well thanks a lot guys. The girl sent me a message saying she just wants to forget about all this, and that even though my story seems sketchy she really has no proof that it was me who took her purse. She said she doesn't want me to think she's a bitch or anything... oh well, once again thanks, and yes Sir_Didier_Drogba I learned my lesson.
 
-William- said:
Well thanks a lot guys. The girl sent me a message saying she just wants to forget about all this, and that even though my story seems sketchy she really has no proof that it was me who took her purse. She said she doesn't want me to think she's a bitch or anything... oh well, once again thanks, and yes Sir_Didier_Drogba I learned my lesson.


ask her whether she'd want to have a drink with you.. if she's beautiful ;)
 


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