My store is in North Hampshire, and unfortunately we are not one of the bigger stores so we haven't as yet got an X-Box promo.
At the moment, the only version we have is the PS2, we'll be expecting the others in around next Wednesday.
To be honest, I got frustrated with the AI on the pro evo games, the com would often just barge my players over, or pull off tricks that I can't! FIFA 2003 is hard to beat (on Semi Pro) but in a way that you don't feel you're being cheated, added to the dynamic camera modes, that are even better than the "ball cam" circa 98 and it just makes it better to play IMO add all the FIFA bells and whistles, and FIFA 2003 I think, is better for me. I realise that Pro Evo 2 has it's merits but all round I'm gonna go with FIFA.
On the subject of PES2, the movement is more fluid, and the players look more like ISS2's now - it's a great game but I've heard the rosters haven't been updated + it doesn't have FIFA's range of teams. (and being a sucker for detail, that's not a good thing!!)
Incidentally there is a choice between Simulation and action in FIFA2003, but I've only played it on Simulation mode.
I would imagine that your local GAME (UK) stores would now have it (or will get it tomorrow), so ask em for a quick peek!
As for the US date, I'm afraid I can't help, sorry.
Mike.