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Has anybody ever been "in love"?

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Voltaic Borusse

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If so, how do you know when you're in love? I know the question is silly and I probably won't get any straight answers, but I want to ask anyway. Also, is getting intimate (i.e. sex, excessive cuddling) early on in a relationship healthy? I've been dating this girl (she's 26 y/o, pretty, witty, intelligent, and a pre-med student) since June, and I'm falling for her at a rapid rate. And she is, too. The relationship is sort of long-distance, as we both live an hour apart, so we don't see each other as much as we would like.
 
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::shinji::

Min
a week or two? hehe, probably a good idea to know before you move in... I been living with the same girl for 8 years, my advice is to take it day by day, enjoy things as they are and don't over-think everything. The early infatuation stage is the most exiting part of any relationship..
 
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hanek45

Min
theres nothing worse than liking someone that dosen't like you..(:/) :nape: (worse ir f you 'love' her)...

i think i have (H)
been in love...

but I'm a pathetic, sh*tty bastard when it comes to getting a girl i really like. I can get close to her, be real good friends and all...

but get her to like me... (N)

its much easier when you don't really give much of a fuss about her and you just want to get something from her...

you probably feel like your 'falling fast for her' because you actually dont see each other very often. If you still like her in at least 4 or more circumstances that arent as supperficial as going out (literally) with her... you're probably in love id say. Circumstances such as... the plenty of them which you go through in your daily life.
 
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$teauA

Superstar
If you think you've been in love, you haven't been in love. It's really that simple. I've been in love, it's really great man but it can kick you in balls at times too.
 
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champdave

SG Sheffield Authority
Voltaic Borusse said:
If so, how do you know when you're in love? I know the question is silly and I probably won't get any straight answers, but I want to ask anyway. Also, is getting intimate (i.e. sex, excessive cuddling) early on in a relationship healthy? I've been dating this girl (she's 26 y/o, pretty, witty, intelligent, and a pre-med student) since June, and I'm falling for her at a rapid rate. And she is, too. The relationship is sort of long-distance, as we both live an hour apart, so we don't see each other as much as we would like.
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It's strange as my situation almost parallels yours. I've just started a new relationship with a girl from work (I'm leaving next Friday from work, so no work-relationship troubles!) - probably been seeing each other for a couple of weeks. We are very intimate already but like Shinji says it's the "early infatuation" stage. We're going to try the long distance thing as I'm off to university this time in a couple of weeks - that'll be the true test of the strength of the relationship.
 
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PhiLLer

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When you're in love you will know it, even if you've never experienced it before. Just take it day by day and things will progress just as they should, hopefully ;)
 
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nird

Senior Squad
no, and you just know. it's not like a checklist. If 5 of 10 is checked you are in love. You know when you are.
 
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Hans

How big is YOUR penis?
I am now, and it's killing me . . . ( The fact that the girl is actually the gf of my best friend... sigh... ) :(
 
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Johnny_Big

Starting XI
Hans said:
I am now, and it's killing me . . . ( The fact that the girl is actually the gf of my best friend... sigh... ) :(
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Been there, and yeah, it's really f*cked up. Good thing is that it's past, but you can't avoid thinking about it someday.
 
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Help?

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Hans said:
I am now, and it's killing me . . . ( The fact that the girl is actually the gf of my best friend... sigh... ) :(
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How do you know that you are then? Is she your gf now? Or you just kind of very attracted to a girl that you see a lot because she is always with your best friend?



It seems like everybody here IS or already HAS been in love in their life and for some reason they know it, but my point is how can you be so sure, if you haven't experienced EVERY side of them and still very much attracted to them? IMO, some of you guys just use the word to loosely. I am attracted to one girl A LOT too, but i don't know like half the things about her, not her history or tastes, but how she does regular day to day things. I'm not saying that you all are not in love, but i just think that you should really think well before saying that you are, it's not something that you can use on like 10 girls in your life, at least it's not supposed to be.
 
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Hans

How big is YOUR penis?
Help? said:
How do you know that you are then? Is she your gf now? Or you just kind of very attracted to a girl that you see a lot because she is always with your best friend?
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It's a kinda complicated story... To make thing short is that my friend cheated on her and at some point I feel sorry for her and for all the ****s she's been through and just suddenly I just can't stop thinking about her.
 
ShiftyPowers

ShiftyPowers

Make America Great Again
Johnny_Big said:
Been there, and yeah, it's really f*cked up. Good thing is that it's past, but you can't avoid thinking about it someday.
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Me too. But I personally, and I can probably speak for everyone who's been in that situation, did not love the girl once I rationally thought it through after everything was over. I don't know what it was, but the combination of being lonely, someone taking in interest in you (100% of the time platonic), and her being super hot is really tough for anyone to deal with.

No I have never been in love. And frankly, I don't want to fall in love in the next year; I have plans and I don't want to get tied down here in Wisconsin to be perfectly honest.

I have an unhealthy infatuation with 17 and 18 year olds, is that love?
 
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$teauA

Superstar
ShiftyPowers said:
I'm seriously worried that in a few years most 18 year olds will think I'm too old.
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So? Turn to 19 year olds.

I don't think that's true though. I'm good friends with two girls that are 18 and are currently dating guys that are 24+ and they're both attractive and suprisingly not whores lol.
 
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