Falling Out of Love?

[Voltaic Borusse]

Has anyone ever fallen out of love? My relationship is nearing 1 year and my feelings for my girlfriend are changing for the bad.

We never have anything to talk about anymore. And when she talks I zone out, because all she rambles about is intellectual crap. Also, another thing I noticed is she always challanges EVERY THING I say, even if it's about stupid ****. Every discussion is turned into a debate with her. She also has this tendency to repeat herself, too. Oh yeah, and she's boring and never wants to do anything fun unless it involves drugs.

/end rant

 

[ShiftyPowers]

Sucks man. There's other fish in the sea.

 

[MaestroZidane]

It happens. Signs like the ones you mentioned above are clear indications that is time to move on.

I was in a relationship were it got to the point were we would be on the phone while watching a game, have her on speakerphone, zone out, and come back with a "lets hope things get better" and it would be like if I hadn't been gone. eventually we decided that it was no longer working out and when our separate ways.

 

[$teauA]

I've been there, it sucks. Time to dump her and move on and before you know it you'll be fine.

 

[jani]

oh yeah, I've been there.

She got extremely jealous of everything. Once, I went out with some friends (the guys from school, no girls), and she was crying all the while at home because she was jealous and affraid I was looking for another girl

Soon after I was not even allowed to even chat with female friends on the net (even if I did so secretly ).

In the end I dumped her exactly 6 months after we 'officially' got together It kinda sucked for her though, at the same time I dumped her, her parents were having problems and were thinking of divorce. Her world was crumbling down

 

[AlienSeafood]

howz teh sexs?!!?!

 

[Tom]

I've been there, it sucks. Time to dump her and move on and before you know it you'll be fine.

Aye, also, in all fairness to her, sooner you do it better it is for her too.

 

[ShiftyPowers]

In the end I dumped her exactly 6 months after we 'officially' got together It kinda sucked for her though, at the same time I dumped her, her parents were having problems and were thinking of divorce. Her world was crumbling down

Hahahaha, I dumped a girl on our 6 month anniversary too.

 

[Fernandez]

Has anyone ever fallen out of love? My relationship is nearing 1 year and my feelings for my girlfriend are changing for the bad.

Dump her on your 1 year annniversary if you have bitter feelings towards her.

 

[RuiCosta_10]

What! You told me the longest you'd been with a girl was 5 months.

haha

VB, that sucks man, the fact that i might get to that point scares the crap out of me, even tho my relationship is pretty solid at the moment...

 

[ShiftyPowers]

What! You told me the longest you'd been with a girl was 5 months.

It was you.

 

[rony31]

me and my girl arent on the best terms right now... and today was her birthday

 

[Voltaic Borusse]

The hardest part in all this is trying to break up with her, because deep down I still do care for her. Not to mention all the time I've invested.

I think I'm going to stop calling and snub her phone calls. Maybe then she will get the hint. If not, oh well.

 

[$teauA]

The hardest part in all this is trying to break up with her, because deep down I still do care for her. Not to mention all the time I've invested.

I think I'm going to stop calling and snub her phone calls. Maybe then she will get the hint. If not, oh well.

You care for her but you don't care for her as much as you used to, that's pretty obvious. It doesn't matter if you've invested time, so what? You invest time in whacking off every day or watching tv, time is well, time and time passes. Just let her go man, trust me on this. I can promise you it most definitely won't get better.

 

[jani]

Dump her on your 1 year annniversary if you have bitter feelings towards her.

Dont do that man

Girls can be cruel, but guys should never

 

[goal_machine84]

Has anyone ever fallen out of love? My relationship is nearing 1 year and my feelings for my girlfriend are changing for the bad.

We never have anything to talk about anymore. And when she talks I zone out, because all she rambles about is intellectual crap. Also, another thing I noticed is she always challanges EVERY THING I say, even if it's about stupid ****. Every discussion is turned into a debate with her. She also has this tendency to repeat herself, too. Oh yeah, and she's boring and never wants to do anything fun unless it involves drugs.

/end rant

Sounds like you need to bang her for one last time

 

[ShiftyPowers]

The hardest part in all this is trying to break up with her, because deep down I still do care for her. Not to mention all the time I've invested.

I think I'm going to stop calling and snub her phone calls. Maybe then she will get the hint. If not, oh well.

You can always take her back if you think you made a mistake. Trust me on that one. Although she might blindside you in 3 months

 

[rony31]

I remember a few months ago when Shifty used to say how he'd never been and didn't really expect to be in a serious relationship... and look at him now

so ya, me and my girl just ended things... sucks because we both still have feelings for each other but she moved back to her hometown for the summer and we barely even talked anymore cuz of how much we work and stuff.. well at least now I can go back and get the $130 i spent on birthday gifts for her for when i planned to visit this weekend

 

[ShiftyPowers]

I remember a few months ago when Shifty used to say how he'd never been and didn't really expect to be in a serious relationship... and look at him now

Look at me now. Not in a relationship.

 

[paoplayer13]

maybe you care about her but are just realizing you don't have much in common. take a break and if you really dont want 2 be with her, move on. good luck!