The I'm-stuck-in-a-kind-of-a-sticky-situation Thread

[RobbieD_PL]

So In summary, do single fish. you'll get lots of teabagging without the guilt of breaking up a **** relationship

 

[O-car]

Well, although she's in a "relationship", it's college, and I know for a fact she's not that serious about it, or relationships in general. There have been sparks flying about between us, so she is kinda diggin on me. I'm probably gonna be teabagging some other girls for now, but if the opportunity comes with this girl, I'm taking it, without hesitation

 

[RobbieD_PL]

Well, although she's in a "relationship", it's college, and I know for a fact she's not that serious about it, or relationships in general. There have been sparks flying about between us, so she is kinda diggin on me. I'm probably gonna be teabagging some other girls for now, but if the opportunity comes with this girl, I'm taking it, without hesitation

That's good to hear bro. As she's in a relationship it's best if she chases you rather than vice versa. Then again I guess it's good if any hot girl chases you, irrespective of if they're in a relationship or not.

Enjoy the teabagging!

EDIT: Does she look like Elin?

 

[Sir Calumn]

I swear to God O-Car is an unsung SG hero...

Anyway in my opinion it would be pretty low to try and steal her away from her boyfriend, unless of course you find out he's treating her badly, but if she's so unattached to him that she comes on to you, then I'd say that's fair game. Be careful though, getting it on with her while she's drunk could result in you getting a reputation you really dont want, and those guys who are "jerks" are generally exactly the kind of people you dont want on your case.

In other news, I turned down an ugly girl who was coming on to me today on the grounds that "I was only interested in dating people who were on my intellectual level", damn that felt good

 

[Joe]

So I had a spell of bad luck the past year and two months and ended up in situations WHERE the girl just broke up with her boyfriend and I did **** then a month or two later got back with the boyfriend. I'm the greatest rebound ever. Sad in a way.

THREE times in a row. Needless to say all but one are even still together.

But it's totally her responsibility...

 

[The Don't]

I swear to God O-Car is an unsung SG hero...

Anyway in my opinion it would be pretty low to try and steal her away from her boyfriend, unless of course you find out he's treating her badly, but if she's so unattached to him that she comes on to you, then I'd say that's fair game. Be careful though, getting it on with her while she's drunk could result in you getting a reputation you really dont want, and those guys who are "jerks" are generally exactly the kind of people you dont want on your case.

In other news, I turned down an ugly girl who was coming on to me today on the grounds that "I was only interested in dating people who were on my intellectual level", damn that felt good

And she responded "Aw, okay. That's understandable." and proceeded to continue her report on the Research and Current Understandings Of 21st Century Quantum Physics.

 

[Sir Calumn]

And she responded "Aw, okay. That's understandable." and proceeded to continue her report on the Research and Current Understandings Of 21st Century Quantum Physics.

Haha, I'm not sure if that's a huge compliment or a huge insult, but either way I like it

 

[O-car]

Anyway in my opinion it would be pretty low to try and steal her away from her boyfriend, unless of course you find out he's treating her badly, but if she's so unattached to him that she comes on to you, then I'd say that's fair game. Be careful though, getting it on with her while she's drunk could result in you getting a reputation you really dont want, and those guys who are "jerks" are generally exactly the kind of people you dont want on your case.

I've actually heard from a friend of hers that the guy treats her bad. as for the tapping it while she's drunk, I wouldn't do that unless I was drunk as well, or at least tipsy

 

[Stotty]

I think you've overused the whole nuts on the foreehad the tphrase. Let me tell you. the first time i heard it i gave it a good chuckle, and thought this post had a bit of weight behind it, but a few sentences later i read it again, and that completely killed it off, making it sound like some term you'd heard and just picked up. This upset me a bit. Anyway, about your topic. I think Shifty Reitz has given you some fantastic advice, and judgin by what he has said, he truly knows the stuff. Please take his advice on board. Any such doubt in your mind will stay there, and nudge at you likea a bad itch. Find someone else and dont get hung up on this lass. Being supportive, she'll probably just see you as a really good, nice friend, not someone she can end up deepthroating at the end of the night.

 

[MikeyM]

I used to be in the same situation at college, all the girls liked talking to me and felt they could trust me and all that stuff, but they all thought of me in that "you're a really nice guy and a good friend" type way. I figured that actually I'd rather have good friends like that and I'd find "my girl" one day. And it happened right out of the blue.

I've had experience of placing girls on pedestals from afar as this guy has and it almost always ends in disappointment. It's the same reason you should never meet your childhood heroes, the reality never lives up to the dream.

 

[ShiftyPowers]

I will say however, that having a lot of female friends can help if you have them introduce you to other women. And rolling up to a bar with 3 girls makes you look cooler than if you show up with 3 guys. But obviously having female friends like this isn't your goal, and usually these girls are right in the middle of your social circle and probably dating someone else (which is why you don't make a move).

 

[The Don't]

And rolling up to a bar with 3 girls makes you look cooler than if you show up with 3 guys.

Really? If I saw a man walk in with three girls I'd think he were queer.

 

[MikeyM]

I will say however, that having a lot of female friends can help if you have them introduce you to other women. And rolling up to a bar with 3 girls makes you look cooler than if you show up with 3 guys. But obviously having female friends like this isn't your goal, and usually these girls are right in the middle of your social circle and probably dating someone else (which is why you don't make a move).

Carlos Nicholson said it best in Batman "Never rub another man's rhubarb" Seriously don't get involved with a girl with a BF.