These can help you.
At the end there is a video link.
For example, if I change any player, say Harvey Elliott of Liverpool (ID: 246174) who has a generic face, I go to "players" and change his gender, column "gender" (from man to woman), then in Liverpool I find him but he has the neck as in the previous photo I posted.
The difficulty you have is not very clear to me, but to insert a female player in a men's team you have to proceed as follows:
in RDBM20> teampleyerlinks, find the id of the female player (playerid) and in the teamid column enter the id of the team in which you want to insert the player
At the end of the transfer market I will publish the EXTREME FIFAPAT GAMEPLAY which will increase the contrasts and fouls of the CPU, the type of game of the CPU, and much more.
It will include the Squads file and the locale.ini file
Important: it is NOT recommended for those who play career...