Tomorrow May Never Come.....

Hi guys... How are you all?? Hope you all are fine and health and Safety....

The most shattering day for me, in my short and sometimes not too simple life….The whole world has fallen day for me….
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I joined this Forum 3 years ago now…But It seems like an eternity….I have made so many good friends here…Billy, Anthony, Rob[kp40], Pete, Jaakko, Arnau, Buti, Bobby, Jambo Den, VanTheMan, Iohannes, Samuelakatan, Run DMB, Keegan, Andreihno, Shifty [Shifty], Liiodan.. etc..Etc...(Please forgive me if I forgotten a few names....<!--[if gte vml 1]><v:shapetype id="_x0000_t75" coordsize="21600,21600" o:spt="75" oreferrelative="t" path="m@4@5l@4@11@9@11@9@5xe" filled="f" stroked="f"> <v:stroke joinstyle="miter"/> <v:formulas> <v:f eqn="if lineDrawn pixelLineWidth 0"/> <v:f eqn="sum @0 1 0"/> <v:f eqn="sum 0 0 @1"/> <v:f eqn="prod @2 1 2"/> <v:f eqn="prod @3 21600 pixelWidth"/> <v:f eqn="prod @3 21600 pixelHeight"/> <v:f eqn="sum @0 0 1"/> <v:f eqn="prod @6 1 2"/> <v:f eqn="prod @7 21600 pixelWidth"/> <v:f eqn="sum @8 21600 0"/> <v:f eqn="prod @7 21600 pixelHeight"/> <v:f eqn="sum @10 21600 0"/> </v:formulas> <vath o:extrusionok="f" gradientshapeok="t" o:connecttype="rect"/> <o:lock v:ext="edit" aspectratio="t"/> </v:shapetype><v:shape id="Picture_x0020_2" o:spid="_x0000_i1026" type="#_x0000_t75" alt="http://www.PlanetSRK.com/forums/images/smilies/smile.gif" style='width:12pt; height:12pt;visibility:visible;mso-wrap-style:square'> <v:imagedata src="file:///CDOCUME~1\DIP\LOCALS~1\Temp\msohtmlclip1\01\clip_image001.gif" o:title="smile"/> </v:shape><![endif]--><!--[if !vml]-->)….I have the most number of friends in SG, so can’t name all of you….But also maybe the most number of haters….Az, Alex, Horatiu, Massive…etc ...etc..I like all of you…..I really do…I will miss being the subject of you jokes…..
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This Forum has become like a family to me….I know most of you here….. I come here daily, well almost. I just can’t do without it!! This planet has taken me more close to my Passion, Manchester United... I am now a much bigger Red Devil than I ever was….and probably would ever have been….

But...... Now I think I have to go.. …or I will go soon..….Forever …... As I say this…..tears roll down my cheeks... I wanted to involve you guys, my second family in sharing my pain….. The thing is... I have been sick for a few days now... and was recently in hospital…..That is why I was away from SG for some days now…..Not as Bhutan as I said, previously….
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The thing is I was suffering from stomach pain for many days, for the last month or so…I presumed that it was just some kind of a minor thing….But the pain increased in the last month or so….So we decided to have a check up….I was sure that something is wrong with me….But I was never sure…Thought it might be Appendicitis…<o></o>
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A Biopsy, Octreo Scan…..was done…..along with a few other ones….I am not really sure what they actually are…<o></o>
But Today Evening I got my reports and had an appointment scheduled with the doctors today…..
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The doctors have said I have cancer...Apendis Cancer…..Carcnoid tumor or so has developed….God, I am shivering while I am writing this…..and that there are very less chances of me being alive for more time....!!! They said, they have no idea...2 years, 2 months, 2 weeks, 2 days or what... no hope.. Only way is operation ... but if that fails I will die then & there...
I don’t know what to do... my family is really upset... it’s a dilemma we are in...!!

But as everyone else….. I don’t want to die so soon…..at this young age when I have just started seeing the world... and my true lady love also hasn’t arrived as yet... At least I don’t want to die before being to Old Trafford…..No way I can afford to do that….
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I don’t know whether I will be able to see our next match also or not... I don’t know anything...Just pray for me...!! Pray that I should die at least after I meet Scarlett Johansson.........
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So, just pray for me.. and tell me what should I do?? Go for an operation or not..…which the doctors said should be done as soon as possible.. But if its not successful, then that’s pretty much the end of it…. We have to decide within a week……or even faster……Just can not wait….My family members are not willing to divulge anything to me…… I dunno why ……My Mom has had a nervous breakdown….. …..Help me…Pray for me…Even if you don’t believe in God….I also didn’t….But now I have to…..

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May be all of you haven&#8217;t been nice to me&#8230;.But I still don&#8217;t dislike anyone of you&#8230;.Have had quite a few quarrels, debates with members here&#8230;..I am really sorry if I have ever hurt you&#8230;..I apologize&#8230;.
You know, I was in the same situation as you are in now, some months ago when one of my virtual friends also suffered from Cancer, cervical cancer&#8230;.We all prayed for her and finally she was saved&#8230;&#8230;You Guys also please pray for me&#8230;&#8230;I just don&#8217;t wanna die&#8230;..I am too young for that&#8230;..

Loving You All,
Dip

I'm not one of the Leexperts here, but didn't he say something like this?

I have the most number of friends in SG, so can&#8217;t name all of you&#8230;

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Made me laugh.

Anyway, get well buddy, from all your friends in the SG Jewish Community, we wish you a swift recovery.

Dipanjan;2680413 said:

A Biopsy, Octreo Scan&#8230;..was done&#8230;..along with a few other ones&#8230;.I am not really sure what they actually are&#8230;
But Today Evening I got my reports and had an appointment scheduled with the doctors today&#8230;..

The doctors have said I have cancer...Apendis Cancer&#8230;..Carcnoid tumor or so has developed&#8230;.God, I am shivering while I am writing this&#8230;..and that there are very less chances of me being alive for more time....!!! They said, they have no idea...2 years, 2 months, 2 weeks, 2 days or what... no hope.. Only way is operation ... but if that fails I will die then & there...
I don&#8217;t know what to do... my family is really upset... it&#8217;s a dilemma we are in...!!

But as everyone else&#8230;.. I don&#8217;t want to die so soon&#8230;..at this young age when I have just started seeing the world... and my true lady love also hasn&#8217;t arrived as yet... At least I don&#8217;t want to die before being to Old Trafford&#8230;..No way I can afford to do that&#8230;.


I don&#8217;t know whether I will be able to see our next match also or not... I don&#8217;t know anything...Just pray for me...!! Pray that I should die at least after I meet Scarlett Johansson.........


So, just pray for me.. and tell me what should I do?? Go for an operation or not..&#8230;which the doctors said should be done as soon as possible.. But if its not successful, then that&#8217;s pretty much the end of it&#8230;. We have to decide within a week&#8230;&#8230;or even faster&#8230;&#8230;Just can not wait&#8230;.My family members are not willing to divulge anything to me&#8230;&#8230; I dunno why &#8230;&#8230;My Mom has had a nervous breakdown&#8230;.. &#8230;..Help me&#8230;Pray for me&#8230;Even if you don&#8217;t believe in God&#8230;.I also didn&#8217;t&#8230;.But now I have to&#8230;..

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I think you should definitely undergo surgery. That's a cancer, you cannot leave it there otherwise it might spread to other organs and that will only aggravate things. You should get it removed as soon as possible and follow their treatment. Don't worry about the operation. Everything will go fine unless something unusual happens in the OT.

When I read the first part I thought you found a girlfriend or something. I thought it's the only reason why people leave SG though. Nevertheless, I can't believe you're that sick. None of SG members have died before. You can't be first. Get well soon to see how Manchester United gets relegated from the Premiership.( Y )


PS. I can't pray for you because God doesn't exist.

That's horrible Dipanjan,you don't even seem that old.
Anyways keep the faith and I hope you recover soon.

Yea, get the surgery.

My cousin and grandmother survived breast cancer.

Get well, man.

15 is no age to die without trying. Get that surgery asap, and keep annoying Horatiu.

I won't pray for you because I don't believe in God, but I still wish you all the best and hope you recover.

Livestrong.

get well man.



btw, you still won't get rid of that yellow card.

Hey man, don't worry.

India has the cheapest and amongst the best cancer treatments available. And a stomach cancer should not be fatal, if removed successfully.

My mom had breast cancer and is perfectly fine now, and she was 60. I think you are in calcutta. Not sure if they have good centers for cancer treatment such as the Tata memorial hospital in Mumbai, but am sure you could come to Mumbai if the doctor's recommend.

Get your family to act soon. Do mail me if you need any contacts in Mumbai.

Get well soon...

:/ hope you get well soon ... i'll pray for you .. turkish gods may hear me .. (( yea yea im tagged as a nationalist )) ok no kidding , i'll try to send you some positive energy..hope you get better .. and if operation is the only way , you should try ..

No really, get better soon.

Wish you a speedy recovery.

Subject of jokes = hated?
Not really, your posts are simply too inviting for sarcasm therefore you get mocked a bit but it's all good. Seriously, almost every member on this forum had to get through an "acceptance" period and you're no different dude. Thing is most of us evolved into not posting retarded sh't and you're still on a row in that department.
Like this thread, wtf is this supposed to make me feel, remorseful?
Give me a ******* break, in case what you said is even remotely true all the drama you've poured onto it was largely expendable and turned what could and should have been a sober, heartfelt post into a mini soap-opera episode.

Having said that, I sincerely hope you get well.
And try to seek consolation amongst your family plus flesh-and-bone friends since they're the only ones that can give you a real hug. All you can get here are sympathetic yet empty words of advice. The people who truly love you and can actually help you are out there near you.

Sorry for the harsh words but I am only trying to give you a reality check.

Dipanjan,

I'll pray for you and your family, that God may lead you to the right decision regarding the operation, that he may comfort you and all those who love you and care about you, and that he will not allow you to perish at such a young age. I've seen bigger miracles in this life, and I am confident you'll be alright.

If I were you, I'd find a New Testament and read it from start to finish. It certainly can't hurt. If you need help understanding something, let me know. (Actually, it's probably better if you find a minister who didn't get his theology degree from a fictitious university, but if you can't, I'm here for you.)

One the first that came to mind as I was reading your post was..... LEE...


In all sincerity, If what you say is true... then I wish you the best recovery and hope all goes well. Surgery is always the best way to go, but do talk to REAL people and hope for the best. Cheers!!

Get well soon although it might be too late for me too wish you that and you might never reply.



I know people who have survived cancer and I knew people who died from cancer. If you are lucky you will live through if you aren't than you aren't living through. It all depends what stage of cancer you have. My cousin's husband died from liver cancer although he never drank or smoked. My aunt died from ovarian cancer i think. My uncle survived intestinal cancer and my other aunt has lung cancer and she never smoked. So I don't want to give you any false hopes but my best wishes is with you.

Wish you a speedy recovery.

Get the surgery man, no doubt about it. If unsuccessful, you die at 15. If successful, you live much much longer. Don't get it and you go til what, 18 max? Do it. All the best.